There is benefit for you in every situation
"There is benefit for you in every situation. If, that is, you know how to look for it.
"The idea behind steady spiritual progress is to see every circumstance and situation (particularly those that challenge you) as a tailor-made lesson in your personal plan for self-development.
"For example, in a situation where hurtful or angry words were exchanged, why not see it as a chance either to perceive things about your own character which need changing or to rehearse some virtue or quality that you need to put into practice more often? Actually, we should be grateful for the opportunity to evaluate ourselves.
"In this way you can transform anything into a constructive lesson. Never think that you've learned enough and now can stop. You should love it when people try to correct you or give you advice. It keeps you alert and gives you plenty of opportunity to put your truth into practice. It's a sign of great danger to be unable to accept criticism and instead use your understanding to criticise others. Realise deeply the significance of every moment, and your spiritual progress will be assured."
Dadi Janki, Companion of God, 1996
"The idea behind steady spiritual progress is to see every circumstance and situation (particularly those that challenge you) as a tailor-made lesson in your personal plan for self-development.
"For example, in a situation where hurtful or angry words were exchanged, why not see it as a chance either to perceive things about your own character which need changing or to rehearse some virtue or quality that you need to put into practice more often? Actually, we should be grateful for the opportunity to evaluate ourselves.
"In this way you can transform anything into a constructive lesson. Never think that you've learned enough and now can stop. You should love it when people try to correct you or give you advice. It keeps you alert and gives you plenty of opportunity to put your truth into practice. It's a sign of great danger to be unable to accept criticism and instead use your understanding to criticise others. Realise deeply the significance of every moment, and your spiritual progress will be assured."
Dadi Janki, Companion of God, 1996
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12:19 AM
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"in a situation where hurtful or angry words were exchanged, why not see it as a chance either to perceive things about your own character which need changing or to rehearse some virtue or quality that you need to put into practice more often?"
This is wise - and close to my heart at the moment. I've had a couple of painful collisions lately with people who matter a lot to me. Looking at such situations in this way is not just of benefit to "your personal plan for self-development" - it's helpful (more importantly!) for the relationship involved...
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Dougald Hine, at Sunday, 07 October, 2007
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